Back in April I decided to try selling the skinny wraps again. But, one thing that I did not completely understand was that the wraps were just one very small piece of what It Works offers. And, to be honest, I believe good old fashioned exercise HAS to go hand in hand with anything like a wrap, or the results will be limited/go back to before. That being said, I am going to introduce you to Confianza.
Oh, Confianza. First of all, I love the name. Makes me think of Confidence. And who doesn’t want more of that? I had a baby last May. My body is not the same. It may never be exactly as it was before, but the thing that I hated the most was how I FELT. I mean, do I love my stretch marks? Eh. Not exactly. But, forget the stretch marks because, hey, my husband still wants me. He didn’t say “Ew, gross. You have stretch marks from carrying our precious boys, I don’t want to have sex with you anymore.”
But, oh, the hormones! Baby, breastfeeding for 10 months, then the abrupt stop of breastfeeding because Cade was all, “hey-oh, I like this here bottle thing” all of a sudden. (Now, I tried for 10 months to get him to take a bottle of expressed milk, and he never ever ever ever ever ever ever wanted it. Imagine my shock when he changed his mind one day.) Things were a step towards normal when he started eating solids and nursing less. But, I still didn’t have much desire. Like, yes, my husband is hot (and he was so into lifting weights at the time, and dang!!! He will probably make me delete that part once he reads it.) But, I wasn’t feeling it. Eventually I felt relatively normal after I adjusted to no more breastfeeding.
Two months after I quit breastfeeding, I was as normal as I thought I could be. But, fairly bitchy. I’m honest. I think having two kids raised my anxiety level. Going back to work was a blessing, but it added to my stress. I wished I had prescription coverage so maybe I could ask my doctor about getting something for my stress/anxiety. I prayed about not having to take anything like that, because I was not familiar enough with prescriptions to know what was available. And, I wanted to tell myself I was “strong enough” to go without. (RIDICULOUS, by the way. Please, please, please, take medication that you’ve been prescribed to help you feel normal. I fully believe in the power of medication to balance what nature can’t) Meanwhile, I am starting to look more at the supplements It Works offers and I have earned some free product (isn’t that awesome that I got free stuff from my job?) and I ask my friend about the Confianza. She says she likes it. It’s free, so I try some. Y’ALL, I DON’T THINK MY LIFE WILL BE THE SAME.
I am a bit of a hippie in the sense of I’d like to “go natural” as best as I can, but not at the expense of real health/treatment. I don’t mind antibiotics when necessary. I like to buy organic when I can. I prefer homeopathic methods for colds and preventatives. I even almost went totally crazy and used cloth diapers (before I realized how much laundry that would create for me, and then I decided “no thanks”) when Cade was born. J I bathed the dogs in Apple Cider Vinegar last week to help keep fleas away. My kids have poop problems? Have some acidophilus. You feel like you’re coming down with something, honey? Here, drink this orange juice I dumped some Greens into.
So, I started taking the Confianza. I text my friend “Uh, does the Confianza affect, like, your drive?” She replies, “Well, I know its balances things out, so maybe that’s part of it.” I just feel like I did when I was 20. I don’t feel like I have given birth to two kids, I have bills to pay and have to go to sleep in the same bed every night with the same stinky husband. I love my family. I love being married to Curtis. Those things didn’t change when I was all moody and unbalanced. But, taking the Confianza has drastically improved my feeling of well being. I think I handle stress a little better, although I am still tightly wound and will probably always be, a little. I feel like I am dealing with my life in a more grounded, less emotionally unstable way. And, the only thing I changed was taking the dang Confianza. Take it as you want.